Which is closer to what you look like? They both have charm.
I like in your memory how you picture your nose. Wider lips and wider set eyes. Expansive brows and expression. The painting from the reference photo I noticed that you paid close attention eyes and mouth. Your eyes are closer and you have a slightly narrower mouth than in your memory drawing. I like the warm expression. You look like a man who’s just starting to smile at something you thought about. It looks like a man I would see around. I like both.